Tantric Domme | Erotic Mentor + Guide

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My work weaves the sacred with the taboo.

My path threads hospital chaplaincy and Zen practice with years of tending death, grief, Eros and the mysteries of power. Trained in neo-Tantra and BDSM, I love guiding the curious into the places we were taught to avoid.

I’m devoted to seducing open the tight grip of purity culture and shame. I use humor, play and presence to alchemize the shadows and claim desire as the ground of true power. Her work offers permission to be messy, imperfect and real, allowing shame to soften so agency can take root.

A companion, trickster and instigator. Working with me is an invitation to meet the parts of yourself once deemed too wild or too holy to fit anywhere else.

Formal Education & Training

  • Zen Buddhist spiritual care training | 1600 clinical hours (2017-2021) with the New York Zen Center

  • Foundations: The Energetics BDSM | 3 mo training (2018) with Kasia Urbaniak

  • Power with Men | 3 mo training (2019) with Kasia Urbaniak

  • Dakini level 1: Training in Neo-tantra fundamentals (2022) with Lourdes Starshower and Lauren Harkness

  • Modern Priestess of Eros | 6 mo Domina training (2022-2023) with Lauren Harkness and Om Rupani

  • Sex Geek Summer Camp | For educators and leaders in the sex positive field (2024) with Reid Mahalko

  • Alchemy: Advanced study in spiritual companionship and shadow integration (2024-2026) with Meg Vellejos McCoy

  • Reiki level 1 Training (2025) with Meg Vellejos McCoy

  • The Field: Sex Positive Facilitator Training (2025) with Rachel Rickards and Reid Mahalko

CLIENTS COME TO ME FOR

Erotic mentorship • Exploring surrender with safety • Growing presence and self-trust • Initiation into a new chapter of life • Ceremony for change • Reclaiming pleasure • Reconnecting with desire • Grief tending • Getting free from shame and religious conditioning • Expanding erotic possibility • Gaining awareness and insight • Permission to feel • Exploring shadows • Breaking old habits •