Erotic Mentor and Guide

I’m here for the ones who are ready to feel more.
 To drink from the deep well of Life.
 To tease open new pathways of surrender.
 To be witnessed. Tended. Tempted.
To peel back the layers of shame and step into belonging.

Deeply curious and a bit of a rebel by nature, I know what it feels like to be standing at the edge thinking, what happens if we try… THIS….

In 2010, I had my first experience with rope, out in the Nevada desert. It was a surprising moment of surrender that cracked the door open. I wanted more. More understanding of the power in surrender. The beauty in ceremony. Witness. Attunement. Slowness. The aliveness and subtle transformation, just in stretching beyond the story of who I thought I was.  

In the years to follow, I found my mentors and guides and began training on the path of eros. I pushed my edges, confronted my stories… and shadows. I found the profound teachings of Zen. Began learning the art of Dominance and submission (D/s) as a pathway for healing, catharsis… and mischief. I learned how play, pain, and pleasure can weave together into something sacred, something that sneaks past shame and lands us closer to freedom.

Today, I create ceremonies for the senses —spaces where the hidden places of aliveness get to wake up and breathe. For those who want to study, I offer mentorship and longer arcs of practice, building skill, nuance, and erotic repertoire.

Formal Education & Training

I’ve had the fortune to train with and learn from incredible teachers in the field of spiritual care and the erotic arts.

Here are Some Highlights:

  • 1600 hr  Zen Buddhist spiritual care training (2017-2021)

  • Foundations: The energetics BDSM  (2018) with Kasia Urbaniak

  • Power with Men  (2019) with Kasia Urbaniak

  • Dakini level 1: Training in Neo-tantra fundamentals (2022) with Lourdes Starshower and Lauren Harkness

  • Modern Priestess of Eros (2022-2023)  with Lauren Harkness and Om Rupani

  • Sex Geek Summer Camp (2024) with Reid Mahalko

  • The Field: Sex Positive Facilitator Training with Rachel Rickards and Reid Mahalko

  • I have a BA in Middle Eastern Studies.

Offerings

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Testimonials

  • “My main hesitation was a fear of aliveness, and since we had only recently met, my main concern was trust. In your presence, I felt so focused and alive. What you suggested as a path was intuitively perfect. You offered care, discipline, a promise that the best was yet to come, and ways for me to connect with my inner strength.”

    – K.


  • "I’ve never experienced anything like that before. Not even close…"

    - L.

  • “I know I’ve thanked you before, but wanted to add some depth to that gratitude: Our time together was a portal, unbound by time or space. Your teachings were profound, subtle and obvious. Thank you.”

    - M.